Saturday, February 8, 2025

Rocks

 Kevin and I went to a "rock show" yesterday; basically a giant room filled with a multitude of neat rocks of various kinds.


We are both materials engineers and love rocks. So it was so much fun. We actually spent quite a bit of money; more on that later.


When we got home, we cleared a few shelves from our IKEA cabinet to set up the new rocks plus some others we have obtained through the years.


And voila.




The last pic is of a big piece of petrified wood. SO GORGEOUS.

Kevin decided to go back to the show today with three of the girls (the kids who wanted to go) and they are there now. Probably will come back with a few more treasures.

Now I am a saver by nature. Like, I was born a saver. Add that to having nine children to care for, and I tend not to want to spend money on non-necessities. I do, of course, spend money, lots of money, on food and shelter and electricity and clothing...

But we are used to being careful financially and it is frankly hard sometimes to spend frivolously.

Not that rocks are exactly frivolous!

Wait, they are frivolous. They serve no practical purpose. We just like them. A lot.

They are also educational :-).

Anyway, I am really happy about our new rocks and reminding myself that money is a tool, and that just storing up money for no particular reason is silly.

In the early days of our parenting, when we were living on a smaller income with a bunch of little kids, we had to be very careful.

Now it is fun to buy rocks! And it is financially just fine.







Thursday, February 6, 2025

Book Launch Day

 We just published a short book, only 32,000 words, which is short for me.


We will see how it does. It is kind of light and frothy, with more silliness than usual.


In other news, we had an ice storm yesterday evening and night. Fortunately, everything warmed up through the night and the rain melted any ice on the roads. Everyone got to work fine this morning.


I am almost 67,000 words into another book and I can feel the fire in me starting to burn high. At some point, I get sick of a book and just want to finish it. I think I am getting close to that for this book.


We have started attending a different church; the one we were attending for the last eight years is a very good church, but it is almost half an hour away from us. The older we get, the less we like leaving home. Also, it is hard to make friends when we are quite a distance from the church. So we found a church only ten minutes away (actually, 9 minutes) and while it is tiny, we already have made some friends. There is another homeschooling family with four children and we have a lot in common, including that in both marriages, the wife is a year older than the husband. That is random and not important :-).


Speaking of homeschooling families, we have friends who used to live on our street, and they are military, and they were sent to Germany, and now they are back in the area and living about 20 minutes away from us. They purchased a very old house, like the second oldest in our county. I honestly love the house, which is a rabbit warren of additions and old fireplaces and stuff. It is not the most practical house in terms of layout, but it is charming. The wife and mom is expecting her tenth child (they are quite a bit younger than we are) and while I sort of envy them the new baby, because I LOVE babies, I am aware that life is easier for us now since everyone can feed him or herself, and everyone can put his or her shoes on...


Given our age it is a good thing we don't have a baby. We are pretty tired. I am grateful for having kids who can move trash around and carry softener salt up and down the stairs...


It feels like we are busy but we aren't crazy busy. I mean, I am writing a lot, and the kids have a lot going on, but nothing extravagantly exciting is happening, which is probably a good thing becuase often 'exciting' is a negative thing.

Tuesday, January 21, 2025

Late January

 


We had a snow flurry yesterday which was actually quite impressive.


Also we are in the middle of a really cold snap. Tonight it is supposed to drop below zero!!


One of my longstanding disagreements with Kevin regards blankets. He, and every other person in the house, thinks you can never have enough blankets. I disagree. Rose decided to make a mountain of blankets which I think proves my point, but ... yeah, everyone else still thinks more blankets are better!


Kevin bought me this puzzle for Christmas and I finished it a few days ago. So fun!


Yesterday was both MLK Day and Inaugaration day. The working kids had the day off, and all seven kids at home crowded around the computer to watch the inaugaration live. Love him or hate him, Trump's second term is historic.

We have spent quite a bit of time sitting around the table or in the family room talking politics. I am generally not a hugely political person, though I have strong views about a bunch of stuff, but the way government works IS interesting.  For the younger kids, there is a lot of bewilderment and it is fun explaining the way the legislature and judicial and executive branches function.

I am fairly knowledgeable about the government in the Regency England thanks to my writing career, and power was definitely in the hands of a few men in that day and age. One of the major problems with monarchy is you don't know if the heir will be a decent person to rule. I think the Prince Regent, eventually George IV, was a pretty lame ruler for a bunch of reasons. Maybe the biggest was his insistence on spending Crown money like water.  Oh, his marriages were a mess too. 

I feel embarrassed to admit this, but I was a little shaky on out parliementary governments (like England and Canada and Australia and a few others) work. I read up on it today.

Kevin and I have had a wearying couple of months, with lots of illness and lots of work with the children. We are grateful for all our blessings and especially the kids, but there are times when a whole lot is going on in their lives and this is one of those times. That, and back to back to back illnesses, is rather draining.

It does help me to think about how fortunate we are, with a warm home and healthy children and food in the refrigerator. Also, I do a lot of praying that God will guide us, and that He will watch over the children and help the older ones as they make adult decisions. He is faithful.



Saturday, January 11, 2025

Mid January

 I am finally feeling pretty good today, which is a relief. I have been extra tired and my breathing has been a bit weird. I have been very careful not to push my lungs.

But yes, I feel more energetic today.


Last Sunday, we got a bunch of snow. Here in southern Ohio, we often get very little snow throughout the winter, so this was pretty exciting.


Kevin plowed out the driveway and made a huge pile of snow for the kids to play in.


Rose on our back deck. You can see how much snow we have!


Random picture of Sarah and Miriam. Obviously a big height difference! Sarah may still be growing a tiny bit but I think she has topped out at about 5 ft 10 inches tall.



Kevin has been making snow ice cream for the children. It is snow plus condensed milk. It has been a great hit. And yes, he does go out in shorts.


I thought this was funny. These two sticky notes were on our counter and they describe the difference between Fe2O3 (rust) and Cr2O3, which is the protective surface layer for stainless steel. Cr forms a protective layer but Fe oxide flakes off. I thought Kevin was explaining it to Isaac, but no, it was to Daniel and Sarah. This is what happens when you have Ph.D. materials scientists for parents.

I love oxidation and protective layers and all that. I love it.

That's about all. Oh, wait!

We got 4 or 5 more inches of snow last night! Very exciting! 






Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Sickness and Reading

 Well, ugh!!

I am sick now. Ugh.  

The kids kept complaining of a sore throat and I was sympathetic but now that I have the same sore throat I am shocked at how painful it is! Not all the time, but some of the time, especially when I wake up in the morning. Which reminds me, I need to take some ibuprofin.

Ok, I am back.

I also have completely lost my voice. But my breathing is good, so praise God!

I paid big bucks to get a COVID and 2 types of flu test from Amazon. I tested myself and they were all negative. So I guess this is some random annoying virus. And annoying is the word!

Strep throat occurred to me but strep is usually localized and doesn't have a cough with it. So I don't think so.

Sarah is sick today as well. I thought she already had this but apparently not. I lost track.

Anyway. Enough whining.

So I have been reading a lot lately, even more than usual, and I always read a lot. It is my favorite hobby.

I wonder if any published writers who are moderately successful are not big readers. It seems like reading and writing would go hand in hand.

This last fortnight I read a couple of books by a man named Joe Tasker. He was a mountaineer who climbed many difficult mountains before dying on Everest at the age of 34 in 1982. Obviously a long time ago. He turned in his last book to his publisher right before heading for Everest, where he died.

I love reading mountain climbing books for some odd reason. I also like reading about polar exploration, especially Antarctica.

Why? I guess it is because explorers and mountain climbers are weird people and I like reading about weird people. I like to think about how different they are, and how their brains work.

Also, there is nothing to make me feel more calm about an illness then to be curled up on my couch, sipping tea, warm, with plenty of oxygen, while reading about people miserably climbing tall mountains.

Anyway. Joe Tasker was always going to die on the mountains. He was not a careful person who had any sense of self preservation. There were two times in his books where he ALMOST died. Came within a hairsbreath of dying, and yet he wrote that he always thought maybe he was being a coward and always felt this internal desire to push himself farther.

He was high up when he died, along with his friend Pete Boardman, who also died, and no one knows exactly what happened, but neither man seemed to have much self preservation.

Another mountaineer who writes well, who has lived to a decent age, is Ed Veisturs, now age 65, who has climbed all the mountains over 8000 meters. He was the first American to do so. He also writes autobiographically, and his perspective was very different from Joe Tasker's. Namely, Veisturs said over and over that getting to the top wasn't the most important thing, getting down was. He was always willing to give up a climb if he thought the conditions were too dangerous. Now he would be the first to say that ANYTHING can happen on a climb, but he was very conservative, unlike Joe Tasker, who was downright reckless at times.

I find both men interesting. Tasker died young doing what he loved, but it is still sad that he had this inward drive to go upward beyond what his body could handle. Veisturs is even weirder in a way, because he took on a very dangerous career (after becoming a veterinarian as a young man) and yet approached it with care.

Yep, interesting.

As I breathe in the thick oxygen of near sea level and drink lemonade.

Very interesting.

And I would never, ever, ever want to climb a big mountain.



Saturday, December 28, 2024

After Christmas

 


So the sickness continues. Now I am convinced there were two illnesses. One was mild and one Isaac contracted first, and is a beast. Isaac is now well, and so are Angela and Sarah (both of whom got it already). Everyone else is sick, including me. I was more or less fine (apart from the first mild illness some weeks ago) but today I definitely feel off. Sigh.

However, it isn't smallpox so I will be grateful.

Rose has been sitting around a lot because she is unwell. Rose is usually a ball of energy so yeah...


Naomi gave me a hat. I like it. Keeps my ears warm.


Miriam had a birthday this week.


Christmas morning was delightfully chaotic. All 9 kids were here, though Lydia was cautious not to get to close to coughing people. There was illness, but we had a great time anyway.

Two nights ago I got to visit some distant cousins who live in the area. It was great catching up with them.

So yeah. Last year we had COVID and this year we are sick with NOT COVID. It is a little tiresome but oh well. We are blessed that we won't get tuberculosis or smallpox or polio or anything really awful.

Merry Christmas to all!




Thursday, December 19, 2024

Less than a week until Christmas

 And just like that, we are almost at the end of December. Wow.


Isaac is improving but is still sick. Like, the tail end of being sick. Kevin is still a bit off. I am mostly fine. But as usual, it has taken a long time for everyone to be healthy.


In the middle of illness and busyness, I have continued to slowly work on decluttering and organizing. These very nice cups and saucers have been hanging out in our cupboards for 25 years or so. We don't use them, so I packed them carefully in a box, with lots of tissue paper, and put them in the basement for now. We don't have lots of cupboard space so I don't want these unused cups taking space in the kitchen.

Someday our children will move out and we will want to help them so we can give them mugs and pull out our cups, or something.

So yes, a little organizing and decluttering still happening.

We are still down a car as it is taking awhile for Kevin's car to be fixed. We are still waiting on a part. It is SUCH a blessing to have multiple cars. It is weird to think how it is normal for families to have multiple cars in this day and age. 150 years ago, there were no cars. Then there were cars, but only for rich people. And then if you were middle class maybe you could afford one car.

And now we have six cars among the whole family, as Naomi and Lydia each have a car, and Isaac and Miriam have a car each, and Kevin and I each have a car.

Amazing.

Also we have four bathrooms. Crazy stuff. So blessed