It isn't just me, Daniel really is a nut!
I've never had a 2 year gap between children before. Usually we've had about an 18 month gap, and between Angela and Sarah there were 3 + years.
Coping with Daniel the last 4 weeks has not been easy. Since I had a C-section, I can't lift him. Naomi and Lydia and Isaac CAN, which is a huge help but still...there are times when it would be much easier if I could pick him up and put him somewhere.
Until Rose was born, he was the "baby" of the family and he really looked like a baby -- chubby cheeks, chubby thighs, cute little baby expression. But now that I have a newborn, Daniel looks much bigger.
And I'll be totally honest, I'm often frustrated with him. People say things about the "terrible twos" and many make a point of saying it should be the "terrific twos." I was telling my father how challenging Daniel is and my dad reminded me (wisely) that if Daniel was NOT busy and vigorous and challenging, it would be a bad sign. Daniel's behavior is totally normal and healthy.
But still, he is so much work! A friend visited today with her son who is 6 months younger than Daniel and her son just seemed way calmer and cheerier than Daniel is because he hasn't got to the crazy 2 year old stage.
So I am struggling with patience with Daniel. I need to remember that this is very hard for him too, welcoming a new baby sister and dealing with a busy and distracted mom.
I am praying for patience and also that Daniel would be protected from his own foolishness. And yes, he is totally precious. May I never forget that even when I am exasperated.
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